A smoother path to divorce from April 2022

Once you have decided that your marriage is over and you have taken the first step towards divorce or dissolution of a civil partnership, most people would like to be able to complete the formalities as quickly and smoothly as possible.  However, the historic laws of divorce have meant that the process could often be confrontational and one partner could refuse to cooperate. Such was the situation in the recent case of Owens v Owens where the argument centered on whether Mr Owens had behaved in such a manner that it was unreasonable to expect his wife to continue to live with him.  The court found that his behaviour did not meet the legal standard for unreasonableness, and the only option for Mrs Owens was to wait until they had been separated for five years. Mrs…

Can I divorce my abusive spouse?

Sadly, if you are experiencing abuse in your marriage, you are far from being alone   with research suggesting that as many as one in four women and one in eight men will experience it at some point.  ‘Ending an abusive marriage will mean not only leaving your spouse, but also formally divorcing them,’ says Robert Bellhouse family law expert with Ware & Kay in York & Wetherby. ‘This is a daunting but important step, as studies have shown that abusive partners do not often change their ways and so your circumstances are unlikely to change if you remain in your marriage.’ As well as guiding you through the legal process of divorce, we will be on your side providing practical advice too.  We are connected with a wide range of support services and can introduce you…

The No-Fault Divorce – the end of the blame game

After being considered, debated, postponed again, no-fault divorce is set to come into force in April 2022 – but what does it mean for divorcing couples in the future? The current law As the law stands, married couples who want to divorce as quickly as possible can only do so by relying on one of two reasons; adultery or unreasonable behaviour.  Any couple wishing to avoid the allocation of blame is required to wait at least two years, and even then they will need one another’s consent.  If you think this does not sound like a very productive approach, you are not alone – the no-fault divorce has been hailed by many as a very welcome change. What’s changing? The no-fault divorce will enable couples to avoid allocating blame to either party, but the changes do…

Arrangements for children after a same sex divorce or separation

Following the introduction of civil partnerships in 2005 and same sex marriages in 2014, there has been an increase in families and then relationship breakdown between same sex parents.  Finding agreement over issues relating to children can be tricky in any relationship breakdown.  When a same sex couple separate it can raise several unique additional questions regarding arrangements for children and each person’s legal rights when children may be adopted, the parents may benefit from surrogacy or sperm donation, or one partner may have children from a previous relationship. Robert Bellhouse, a Solicitor in the family law team with Ware & Kay in York & Wetherby looks at some of the steps and considerations same sex couples need to bear in mind in relation to agreeing future arrangements for children.   Reaching agreement together In any family…

Preserving the golden goose, after divorce for a farming couple

The problems in obtaining seasonal labour for British farms hit the headlines with threats of turkey shortages last year, but such pressures can continue well into the New Year sometimes straining marriages to breaking point. January is usually a busy month for divorce lawyers, as couples finally decide that their marriage has broken down irretrievably. While divorce is never easy, with spouses having to agree how to split their assets and make arrangements for children, it can be particularly complex where agricultural assets are concerned. Robert Bellhouse family law specialist at Ware & Kay Solicitors in York & Wetherby explains how it is important to try to preserve the golden goose, by enabling the farm to continue to generate income to support the whole family where possible. He outlines a few of the key considerations for…

What to expect at a financial dispute resolution (FDR) hearing

If you are applying for a financial order as part of your divorce then the court will list your case in for a financial dispute resolution hearing, often called an FDR hearing. This is a private court hearing and is aimed at trying to assist parties in settling any dispute over finances.  ‘The judge does not make a final decision, but instead tries to encourage the couple to reach an agreement.  It provides an opportunity for everyone to gather in court to discuss all the financial issues and to seek the guidance from an experienced judge on the legal position.  Most disputes can be resolved at this stage, without the need for a final hearing,’ says Robert Bellhouse family law expert at Ware & Kay in York & Wetherby. How to prepare for a financial dispute…

Avoiding the divorce court for farming families

It is a new year, so off with the old and on with the new. Sadly, this also sometimes includes spouses, with divorce lawyers seeing a spike in divorce enquiries in January as the stress of the festive season takes its toll. Divorce for farming families can be particularly complicated, given that farms are often asset rich but cash poor, and their ownership split between the extended family. This sometimes makes it difficult to achieve a fair division of assets between the separating couple, while still ensuring the survival of the farming business. With complexity comes extra cost, especially if all the details have to be thrashed out in court. Robert Bellhouse, family law specialist at Ware & Kay Solicitors in York & Wetherby explains how a fair settlement can be achieved for both parties, while…

Financial arrangements after dissolution of a civil partnership

According to the Office for National Statistics, since the introduction of civil partnerships in 2005, over 65,000 couples have formalised their relationship in this way and been afforded similar legal rights to those of married couples, including when it comes to separating. Since 2015, each year has seen over 1,200 couples dissolving their civil partnership and having to sort out their finances as they seek to start a new life. Robert Bellhouse a family lawyer with Ware & Kay in York & Wetherby explains that ‘While some of the formalities are different, when it comes to dealing with financial disputes arising from the dissolution of a civil partnership the same principals apply as would on divorce’. Full and frank disclosure Before you can be advised on how your assets are likely to be divided, it is…

Can I change the locks on my house after separation?

If you and your partner have separated, you will be keen to start your life afresh and may wondering whether you can change the locks on your house. This may be particularly appealing if the relationship breakdown has been acrimonious and you have concerns that your former partner will turn up unannounced, remove belongings while you are out, or cause a nuisance. You may even have concerns for your safety. ‘While it can be unsettling, it is important that you do not change the locks without seeking legal advice’ explains Robert Bellhouse, family law expert with Ware & Kay in York & Wetherby ‘as the legal position varies depending on your circumstances’.  For married couples If you are married, then the starting point is that your spouse has a legal right to enter their matrimonial home…

Implacably hostile over child arrangements – could this be you?

If you cannot reach an agreement with your former partner about arrangements for your children, one of you may apply to the family court for an independent decision.  The courts have a wide range of powers in deciding where a child should live and how often they should see each of their parents.  In most cases, a court will want to preserve a relationship between a child and both of their parents, even if it recognises that one parent’s behaviour is far from ideal.  ‘Understandably this can sometimes be difficult to accept, especially if your relationship with your partner has disintegrated and you have serious concerns about your child’s safety,’ says Robert Bellhouse family law expert at Ware & Kay in York & Wetherby. ‘However, if you fail to follow the orders of the court or…